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The Passing of Ray McKee

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Damon Shields 21 Feb 2013
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It is with deep regret and sadness that I relay the passing of Ray McKee. Ray was a long time collector and at one time had one of the most prominent restraint collections in the world. In the mid 1980s Ray sold his collection. During his early years, Ray located and identified some of the rarest items known to the hobby and certainly helped many collectors by passing on his knowledge and expertise.

Additionally Ray was a gifted machinist and made several one of a kind items that were spectacular. In about 2004, Ray decided to start collecting again and was quick to gain the attention of many of us as that darn high bidder on ebay. I personally got to know Ray about seven years ago. It was like opening an encyclopedia of knowledge. When I mentioned a strange cuff or senior collector, Ray always knew what and who I was talking about.

Last year Ray attended the Indy lock show and it was such a treat to meet him personally. Ray was genuinely nice man who loved his family and friends and of course the hobby.

Good bye my friend. You will be missed.

Damon
Joshua 22 Feb 2013
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For about a year I only knew Ray as that pain in butt y***o that either bid me up or out bid me. Anytime I'd loose an auction my would say "let me guess Y O" I was eventually informed that was Ray McKee who I'd heard about many times over the years. People like Gordon, Fred, Damon and John proclaimed how nice of a guy he was and they would talk about his collection he once sold off. Soon after Ray and I started swapping emails and giving eachother heck on past auctions we had lost to one another. Along with a few others I started to push him to come to the Indy show. He called me up one day and had a few questions about Indy and to talk about an item we were both planning on going after. I didn't know what to expect form a collector who had been collecting longer than I've been alive and had ten times the knowledge I had about restraints. I feared that he might be a bit stand offish about the big ticket item we were both wanted so bad and that his impression of the Indy convention might not be of the highest regard. I couldn't have been more wrong...I was at work when he called and pulled my truck over to answer the phone. Two hours later I was still on the side of the road talking to one of the nicest guys I've ever had the pleasure of speaking with (I work for the government so that's how your tax dollars are spent). He shared story after story and experiences he had over the years and instead of being smug about Indy he was baffled on why we would want him to show up. I dare say he was bit nervous about going as opposed to thinking he above it. We finally convinced him to make the trip to the convention and it was there I got to experience that the phone call represented exactly what kind of man he was. He was overly kind, genuine and full of great stories. The only issue was trying to stay up with him through the night so to as not miss anything. I kept in touch with him until a few months ago when his health was getting the better of him and it was getting more and more difficult for him to talk on the phone and the length between emails grew. Even then he would fight off a nasty cough attack just to keep me entertained with his conversation. I knew him many years less than some of you but even in the couple years I got to know him, he had a great impact and will be missed by myself and my family. He was a great man and I can only hope that as the years pass I will have his passion for collecting and half of the good natured heart that he had.
Ian McColl 22 Feb 2013
#3
It is with deep regret and sadness that I relay the passing of Ray McKee. Ray was a long time collector and at one time had one of the most prominent restraint collections in the world. In the mid 1980s Ray sold his collection. During his early years, Ray located and identified some of the rarest items known to the hobby and certainly helped many collectors by passing on his knowledge and expertise.

Additionally Ray was a gifted machinist and made several one of a kind items that were spectacular. In about 2004, Ray decided to start collecting again and was quick to gain the attention of many of us as that darn high bidder on ebay. I personally got to know Ray about seven years ago. It was like opening an encyclopedia of knowledge. When I mentioned a strange cuff or senior collector, Ray always knew what and who I was talking about.

Last year Ray attended the Indy lock show and it was such a treat to meet him personally. Ray was genuinely nice man who loved his family and friends and of course the hobby.

Good bye my friend. You will be missed.

Damon
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My condolences to the McKee family and his closet friends.
For over thirty years I have had the pleasure to know Ray via our hobby. He freely shared his wisdom, knowledge and help to me as a younger man. My passion for the hobby was increased by Rays passion and quest for the elusive piece.
A devoted man to everything in his life, he once held the record for the largest collection in the world. I would read and read over his lists with astonishment and an increase desire to collect.
For most noble reasons, Ray had to part with his huge collection for the interest of his other great passion. Only in the last few years returned to his hobby and rekindled so many friendships. Ray was one of the nicest, kindest and generous people I have known.
By collecting history, he has made his mark in it. He will be sadly missed but most fondly remembered.

Sincerely

Ian McColl
Australia
holstcollection 22 Feb 2013
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It is with deep regret and sadness that I relay the passing of Ray McKee. Ray was a long time collector and at one time had one of the most prominent restraint collections in the world. In the mid 1980s Ray sold his collection. During his early years, Ray located and identified some of the rarest items known to the hobby and certainly helped many collectors by passing on his knowledge and expertise.

Additionally Ray was a gifted machinist and made several one of a kind items that were spectacular. In about 2004, Ray decided to start collecting again and was quick to gain the attention of many of us as that darn high bidder on ebay. I personally got to know Ray about seven years ago. It was like opening an encyclopedia of knowledge. When I mentioned a strange cuff or senior collector, Ray always knew what and who I was talking about.

Last year Ray attended the Indy lock show and it was such a treat to meet him personally. Ray was genuinely nice man who loved his family and friends and of course the hobby.

Good bye my friend. You will be missed.

Damon
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Damon just informed me about Rays passing. -Very, very sad news but unfortunately not surprising as Ray
has been ill for quite some time. The only comfort is that Ray is not suffering anymore.

It's not easy to describe Ray in a few words but he was one of the kindest and most generous persons I've ever known.
As been stated, Ray had a great knowledge in restraints which he generously shared with his friends.

I got in contact with Ray about seven years ago. At that time I didn't know he was one of the major forerunners
in our hobby.
He started to send me a great number photos of cuffs from his former collection that was sold many years ago.
His collection was not only big, he owned most of the high end cuffs we only can dream of today; the Dortmunder
with foldable bows, the Houston bar cuff, Adams leg irons, Wisner, Berliners, Hiatt Nigerian Pattern and many,
many other super rare restraints.

During the years we exchanged several hundreds of emails about auctions, odd versions of cuffs, photos and thoughts.
Ray was always a great source and I learned very much from him.Ray many times told me how he regrets selling of his
collection which he did when his wife passed. He restarted collecting with the intention to only have about 100 great
cuffs. He exceeded that number.

Ray was always a hard competitor when a rare cuff was listed on eBay but we rarely competed as we had a great
communication and never bid against each other. Ray also kindly helped me with bidding and shipping of cuffs when a
seller didnt want to ship a cuff outside the US.

I know Ray will be deeply missed by all of us who got the great opportunity to be his friend.

My thoughts go to Rays beloved family. Ray, you will be missed by many people!!


Rest in peace my friend!

Lars



John Bushey 22 Feb 2013
#5
It is with deep regret and sadness that I relay the passing of Ray McKee. Ray was a long time collector and at one time had one of the most prominent restraint collections in the world. In the mid 1980s Ray sold his collection. During his early years, Ray located and identified some of the rarest items known to the hobby and certainly helped many collectors by passing on his knowledge and expertise.

Additionally Ray was a gifted machinist and made several one of a kind items that were spectacular. In about 2004, Ray decided to start collecting again and was quick to gain the attention of many of us as that darn high bidder on ebay. I personally got to know Ray about seven years ago. It was like opening an encyclopedia of knowledge. When I mentioned a strange cuff or senior collector, Ray always knew what and who I was talking about.

Last year Ray attended the Indy lock show and it was such a treat to meet him personally. Ray was genuinely nice man who loved his family and friends and of course the hobby.

Good bye my friend. You will be missed.

Damon
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HI,
I am one who went WAY back with Mr. McKee. Some deals never leave you. My first deal with Ray I traded him a Flash Action handcuff
and thumbcuff, and in return I got a whole collection of Slave items; neck collar, two wrist irons and two leg irons, and one leg iron
and one handcuff with locks. He also generously included a book still in my collection today; Houdini His Life and Work in Prose and Picture by
Hardeen. Well, as the years rolled by I ended up selling most of the slave stuff, and ended up getting over $2000. I did purchase one of Ray's
Bell lock cuffs years ago, and still have that too. He was always a gentleman, and am proud to have finally, after nearly 30 years, gotten to meet
him at last year's Indy Lock show. He will be sadly missed and my condolances to all his friends and family. His remarkable collection in the 1970's now rests in many of our collections, and we are proud to be the temporary caretakers of these pieces. I was so thrilled when he started collecting again, and getting to meet him was an extraordinary pleasure for all who were there.
Gordon 22 Feb 2013
#6
It is with deep regret and sadness that I relay the passing of Ray McKee. Ray was a long time collector and at one time had one of the most prominent restraint collections in the world. In the mid 1980s Ray sold his collection. During his early years, Ray located and identified some of the rarest items known to the hobby and certainly helped many collectors by passing on his knowledge and expertise.

Additionally Ray was a gifted machinist and made several one of a kind items that were spectacular. In about 2004, Ray decided to start collecting again and was quick to gain the attention of many of us as that darn high bidder on ebay. I personally got to know Ray about seven years ago. It was like opening an encyclopedia of knowledge. When I mentioned a strange cuff or senior collector, Ray always knew what and who I was talking about.

Last year Ray attended the Indy lock show and it was such a treat to meet him personally. Ray was genuinely nice man who loved his family and friends and of course the hobby.

Good bye my friend. You will be missed.

Damon
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All of the nice things that the above posts say about Ray I have found
to be true myself. I did business with him,talked to him on the phone and
exchanged emails. But when I met him in person and spent time with him
last year at Indy, it was a highlight of my collecting career. Others
at the lock show agreed that for them, he was the best part of the show.
At one time Ray McKee, Prince Wheeler and Dick Norman was the considered
the big 3 of the handcuff collecting world. Big handcuff collections can
be made but the knowledge of the collection will never be know like it was
back then. I will miss him.

Gordon
Vince 23 Feb 2013
#7
It is with deep regret and sadness that I relay the passing of Ray McKee. Ray was a long time collector and at one time had one of the most prominent restraint collections in the world. In the mid 1980s Ray sold his collection. During his early years, Ray located and identified some of the rarest items known to the hobby and certainly helped many collectors by passing on his knowledge and expertise.

Additionally Ray was a gifted machinist and made several one of a kind items that were spectacular. In about 2004, Ray decided to start collecting again and was quick to gain the attention of many of us as that darn high bidder on ebay. I personally got to know Ray about seven years ago. It was like opening an encyclopedia of knowledge. When I mentioned a strange cuff or senior collector, Ray always knew what and who I was talking about.

Last year Ray attended the Indy lock show and it was such a treat to meet him personally. Ray was genuinely nice man who loved his family and friends and of course the hobby.

Good bye my friend. You will be missed.

Damon
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As one of the younger collectors in this hobby, the only mentioning of Ray I've ever seen has been here on this forum, given, the way he was always described by those that have been in touch for decades was nearly as a celebrity status. You can almost say a "Living Legend" of sorts. My only interaction with Ray took place at last years Indy. Even though I was loosly introduced to him, it didn't really sink in until nightfall outside of the hotel: He asked me if I had a light, to which I (as I usually do) smartassly handed him my flashlight. He nearly tore my head off verbally as I walked to my car. Upon passing him again near the side entrance, he pulled me aside, apologized for not initially "getting" my sense of humor, and we began talking about various mechanical things like elevator safety brakes, tools, and metals for the next hour outside the hotel. Somehow the topic turned to cuffs (why wouldn't it???), he mentioned how he used to have such an envious collection and then sold it off, but now he's collecting again using the computer and Ebay -THEN A LIGHTBULB WENT OFF & CLICKED! I realized I was talking to THAT Ray. The one who everyone speaks so HIGHLY about. The one who is so willing to share his vast mental arsenal of cuff knowledge. Speaking with him was an enlightening experience. The enthusiasm and vivid memory of the golden days of cuff collecting blew me away. Every extraordinary word said of him and his accolades came spewing out of the horse's mouth. That hour turned to an hour and a half, 2 hours if you combine the time we chatted the hallway outside the "Secret Party Room". I was hoping he'll be at this year's Indy as well to gab about more cuffs & things. I'm saddened I haven't met him sooner. His passing will certainly leave a sinkhole in the hobby too cavernous to be filled anytime soon. ...RIP Ray!

--Vince
joe tanner 23 Feb 2013
#8
It is with deep regret and sadness that I relay the passing of Ray McKee. Ray was a long time collector and at one time had one of the most prominent restraint collections in the world. In the mid 1980s Ray sold his collection. During his early years, Ray located and identified some of the rarest items known to the hobby and certainly helped many collectors by passing on his knowledge and expertise.

Additionally Ray was a gifted machinist and made several one of a kind items that were spectacular. In about 2004, Ray decided to start collecting again and was quick to gain the attention of many of us as that darn high bidder on ebay. I personally got to know Ray about seven years ago. It was like opening an encyclopedia of knowledge. When I mentioned a strange cuff or senior collector, Ray always knew what and who I was talking about.

Last year Ray attended the Indy lock show and it was such a treat to meet him personally. Ray was genuinely nice man who loved his family and friends and of course the hobby.

Good bye my friend. You will be missed.

Damon
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it is truely a sad sad time with the passing of RAY.... i am truly envious of you collectors who actually got to meet him.... for many many years i dealt with Ray by slow boat mail and 100's & 100's of phone conversations as well as over the last few years by email... RAY like my father in law were true true pioneers of restraints knowledge as well as TWO of the BEST people in the world to know & learn from... RIP ... joe
Fred Pittella 23 Feb 2013
#9
It is with deep regret and sadness that I relay the passing of Ray McKee. Ray was a long time collector and at one time had one of the most prominent restraint collections in the world. In the mid 1980s Ray sold his collection. During his early years, Ray located and identified some of the rarest items known to the hobby and certainly helped many collectors by passing on his knowledge and expertise.

Additionally Ray was a gifted machinist and made several one of a kind items that were spectacular. In about 2004, Ray decided to start collecting again and was quick to gain the attention of many of us as that darn high bidder on ebay. I personally got to know Ray about seven years ago. It was like opening an encyclopedia of knowledge. When I mentioned a strange cuff or senior collector, Ray always knew what and who I was talking about.

Last year Ray attended the Indy lock show and it was such a treat to meet him personally. Ray was genuinely nice man who loved his family and friends and of course the hobby.

Good bye my friend. You will be missed.

Damon
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Well, what is there to say when you lose a friend and you have to say goodbye! I started to speak on the phone and correspond to Ray way back when!
Maybe more years then I care to remember. Ray was always willing to share his knowledge and his experience even to a kid like me back then. Ray was a true kind and good person, when he gave up his collection to help his wife he was fine with it! Because as all of us who collect know its in our blood he started to collect again. He would tell me he is going to keep his collection down to a few key pieces, why because he didnt want to burden his daughter when he was gone! But whenever something rare would come up to buy there was Ray a true collector!! As everyone had said here, the biggest trill was to finally get to met Ray in Indy!! Some of my key pieces I thank Ray!!! As I always said its not all about collecting its not the pieces in the collection its the friends I meet collecting!!! Goodbye friend!!!
The Amazing Michael 23 Feb 2013
#10
It is with deep regret and sadness that I relay the passing of Ray McKee. Ray was a long time collector and at one time had one of the most prominent restraint collections in the world. In the mid 1980s Ray sold his collection. During his early years, Ray located and identified some of the rarest items known to the hobby and certainly helped many collectors by passing on his knowledge and expertise.

Additionally Ray was a gifted machinist and made several one of a kind items that were spectacular. In about 2004, Ray decided to start collecting again and was quick to gain the attention of many of us as that darn high bidder on ebay. I personally got to know Ray about seven years ago. It was like opening an encyclopedia of knowledge. When I mentioned a strange cuff or senior collector, Ray always knew what and who I was talking about.

Last year Ray attended the Indy lock show and it was such a treat to meet him personally. Ray was genuinely nice man who loved his family and friends and of course the hobby.

Good bye my friend. You will be missed.

Damon
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I was sad to hear that Ray has passed. I didn't know him like some of the other collectors did but I knew "of" him for years and I was very fortunate to get to meet him last year at Indy. Ray was the star of the after hour party with all the rare goodies he brought. I recall that he tossed out three Berliners, a H&R 123 three-way handcuff, two Lilly irons, and a very rare Maltby all at once and let everyone play around with them......that is a very trusting man. Ray also shared a lot of info with everyone at the show as well......he was a true credit to the collecting circle and he will be missed.

Mike
grenchat 23 Feb 2013
#11
It is with deep regret and sadness that I relay the passing of Ray McKee. Ray was a long time collector and at one time had one of the most prominent restraint collections in the world. In the mid 1980s Ray sold his collection. During his early years, Ray located and identified some of the rarest items known to the hobby and certainly helped many collectors by passing on his knowledge and expertise.

Additionally Ray was a gifted machinist and made several one of a kind items that were spectacular. In about 2004, Ray decided to start collecting again and was quick to gain the attention of many of us as that darn high bidder on ebay. I personally got to know Ray about seven years ago. It was like opening an encyclopedia of knowledge. When I mentioned a strange cuff or senior collector, Ray always knew what and who I was talking about.

Last year Ray attended the Indy lock show and it was such a treat to meet him personally. Ray was genuinely nice man who loved his family and friends and of course the hobby.

Good bye my friend. You will be missed.

Damon
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This comes as a total shock. Ray had a booth at the show, and all of his belongings were sprawled out and neatly labeled with little white identification tags. I recall how Ray liked to record all the dates, particulars, etc. for posterity. Ray was truly a collector of the first magnitude.

Ray will never be forgotten.



Jay Leslie 24 Feb 2013
#12
It is with deep regret and sadness that I relay the passing of Ray McKee. Ray was a long time collector and at one time had one of the most prominent restraint collections in the world. In the mid 1980s Ray sold his collection. During his early years, Ray located and identified some of the rarest items known to the hobby and certainly helped many collectors by passing on his knowledge and expertise.

Additionally Ray was a gifted machinist and made several one of a kind items that were spectacular. In about 2004, Ray decided to start collecting again and was quick to gain the attention of many of us as that darn high bidder on ebay. I personally got to know Ray about seven years ago. It was like opening an encyclopedia of knowledge. When I mentioned a strange cuff or senior collector, Ray always knew what and who I was talking about.

Last year Ray attended the Indy lock show and it was such a treat to meet him personally. Ray was genuinely nice man who loved his family and friends and of course the hobby.

Good bye my friend. You will be missed.

Damon
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The first time I met Ray (so I thought) was a few months after a jail escape I did In a small city outside of Pittsburgh. He watched the P.M. Magizine segment (tv show) the escape was on, and wrote a letter to the station for my contact information. They denied his request without contacting me. This is especially funny because I only lived 20 ish miles away and was listed in the phone book, but he had no idea I lived in the area ( it gets better). Finally, after he persisted in contacting the TV station, the station forwarded his request. Later hecsaid he sent a bunch of letters before they helped.

So I opened this letter asking for my contact info and called him. He invited me to his home. When I arrived he informed me that we should be quiet because his wife was upstairs in bed and I'll. (she had emphizema) So we went down to the basement. In the basement there was a wall of really cuffs. There was also a couch and a table. We sat at the table. He went into another room and brough out a half dozen cuffs. He asked me to inspect them while he quizzed me on my knowledge of jail locks, handcuffs, and locksmithing. I was gingerly handling his cuffs.. That was the correct thing to do as I found out. This was really a test. He said "I'm glad you know how to handle the metal without scratching or hitting them. Now we can really look at the collection".

He went into the other room again and wheeled-out 4, folding display boards on wheels. When he opened them I saw what I thought were a LOT of identical handcuffs. He said "I spend a lot of time making sure my collection is complete" then he pointed-out there were 127 (as I remember) of the exact same Japanise cuff including 127 different keys... And he had them all, making for a complete set.

Then he slid-open the table, which o never duspected as a hide-a-way and inside were several dozen cuffs he paid various machinists to make because he couldn't fond them on the open market. He explained that all his spare time was taken-up coorsponding with police departments and manufacturers all ofer the world but he just couldn't find the ones in the table.

After that he called attention to the wall, which was about 18 feet long. We inspected a few hundred cuffs hanging on the wall. I thought the tour was over but he asked if I could stay longer. He invited me to look at any cuff I wanted to because he knew I would take care but he needed to go check on his wife. Half an hour later he came back downstairs and said that I was in-for a real treat.

Meanwhile, I had mentioned that he looked familiar to me, by this time, about 4 times.

So he said that he probably had 6 tons of metal "down here". I remarked that the floor should probably be fortified. He smiled. He said that he did reinforce the floor to take 10 tons, if necessary. Then the real fun began. Peas there 5 hours already and couldn't imagine how much more fun we could have.

So he asked me whatever I saw that I keep it a secret. And I have till now because, since he's gone, it doesn't matter. The secret was that the double wall where the cuffs hung was really a front for a secret room that contained another 300 antiquities and super-cuffs. The walls slid sideways. It was a beautiful thing. There were no clues that tracks, rollers or secret anything existed.

As the walls slid open interior lighting bounced off the metal in a way that made the experience look like the opening of a pirate chest full of gold. The room wasn't that deep but I could imagine the contractors pouring cement through a window into the basement and the neighbors scratching their heads.

Locks of all sizes, handcuffs, jail locks, story locks and more. Hundreds of more.

Then Ray lamented that he would have been an escape artist except that his wrists were too big. We compared wrists. He told me he was jealous my wrists were so small compared to his. He was right. He probably could have been an escape artist had his wrists and hands been smaller. He was only an inch taller than me but o am small boned and he was big boned.

Since that time I visited his house several times and we did some horse trading but only half the time. The rest of the visits all we did was talk metal. Hours of inspecting, picking, shimming and comparing metal.

Then one day I figured- out why Ray looked so familiar to me. He worked at the Giant Eagle Grocery Store in the produce department and I had been buying my produce from him for 5 years. About the third time I was at the Eagle, after my initial visit to his home, Ray smiled and said hello. Before that I didn't connect "the produce guy" with the hsndcuff collector.

Needless to say, after that I met him many times for lunch. After all, I could walk to his work on about 5 minutes!

Rest in peace, Ray.
Nils 24 Feb 2013
#13
It is with deep regret and sadness that I relay the passing of Ray McKee. Ray was a long time collector and at one time had one of the most prominent restraint collections in the world. In the mid 1980s Ray sold his collection. During his early years, Ray located and identified some of the rarest items known to the hobby and certainly helped many collectors by passing on his knowledge and expertise.

Additionally Ray was a gifted machinist and made several one of a kind items that were spectacular. In about 2004, Ray decided to start collecting again and was quick to gain the attention of many of us as that darn high bidder on ebay. I personally got to know Ray about seven years ago. It was like opening an encyclopedia of knowledge. When I mentioned a strange cuff or senior collector, Ray always knew what and who I was talking about.

Last year Ray attended the Indy lock show and it was such a treat to meet him personally. Ray was genuinely nice man who loved his family and friends and of course the hobby.

Good bye my friend. You will be missed.

Damon
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My condolences go out to the family. Despite some 12 years of collecting, I've never had the chance to meet Ray myself, but it seems to me that a lot of experience passed away together with a kind person.

Nils
Germany
Joseph Fox 25 Feb 2013
#14
It is with deep regret and sadness that I relay the passing of Ray McKee. Ray was a long time collector and at one time had one of the most prominent restraint collections in the world. In the mid 1980s Ray sold his collection. During his early years, Ray located and identified some of the rarest items known to the hobby and certainly helped many collectors by passing on his knowledge and expertise.

Additionally Ray was a gifted machinist and made several one of a kind items that were spectacular. In about 2004, Ray decided to start collecting again and was quick to gain the attention of many of us as that darn high bidder on ebay. I personally got to know Ray about seven years ago. It was like opening an encyclopedia of knowledge. When I mentioned a strange cuff or senior collector, Ray always knew what and who I was talking about.

Last year Ray attended the Indy lock show and it was such a treat to meet him personally. Ray was genuinely nice man who loved his family and friends and of course the hobby.

Good bye my friend. You will be missed.

Damon
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Unfortunately, I never had the pleasure to meet Ray.

Both The MAN and his COLLECTION were legendary!

The correspondence between us began in 1983...Ray was always very patient & helpful answering the numerous questions that I asked him about.

I'll now treasure his letters - written, of course, in his own hand (something today's e-mailers may not appreciate).

Ray put out SALE Lists from the mid 1980s - through the mid 1990's...they remain a great reference source for me.

RIP, Ray. My condolences to the McKee family.

--Joe Fox
Michael Busch 28 Feb 2013
#15
It is with deep regret and sadness that I relay the passing of Ray McKee. Ray was a long time collector and at one time had one of the most prominent restraint collections in the world. In the mid 1980s Ray sold his collection. During his early years, Ray located and identified some of the rarest items known to the hobby and certainly helped many collectors by passing on his knowledge and expertise.

Additionally Ray was a gifted machinist and made several one of a kind items that were spectacular. In about 2004, Ray decided to start collecting again and was quick to gain the attention of many of us as that darn high bidder on ebay. I personally got to know Ray about seven years ago. It was like opening an encyclopedia of knowledge. When I mentioned a strange cuff or senior collector, Ray always knew what and who I was talking about.

Last year Ray attended the Indy lock show and it was such a treat to meet him personally. Ray was genuinely nice man who loved his family and friends and of course the hobby.

Good bye my friend. You will be missed.

Damon
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In my early years of handcuff collecting Ray was one of the first American collectors I became acquainted with. At that time I had a handcuff collection that was complete, at last for me. I had all the pieces I had ever heard of, and there was nothing more to look for. The number of items in my collection at that time was thirty, approximately.

In these days contact was by mail only, email and Internet were not even thought of, so corresponding with a person in the USA taught you to be patient. I will never forget when I received a big letter from Ray with pictures showing me all the cuffs he had and a long list with all the names of the restraints that were shown.

Today I still have those pictures and list and they forever remind me of the kind person Ray was.

My condolences go out to his family.

R.I.P., Ray.

With deep respect

Michael
joegiunta 02 Mar 2013
#16
It is with deep regret and sadness that I relay the passing of Ray McKee. Ray was a long time collector and at one time had one of the most prominent restraint collections in the world. In the mid 1980s Ray sold his collection. During his early years, Ray located and identified some of the rarest items known to the hobby and certainly helped many collectors by passing on his knowledge and expertise.

Additionally Ray was a gifted machinist and made several one of a kind items that were spectacular. In about 2004, Ray decided to start collecting again and was quick to gain the attention of many of us as that darn high bidder on ebay. I personally got to know Ray about seven years ago. It was like opening an encyclopedia of knowledge. When I mentioned a strange cuff or senior collector, Ray always knew what and who I was talking about.

Last year Ray attended the Indy lock show and it was such a treat to meet him personally. Ray was genuinely nice man who loved his family and friends and of course the hobby.

Good bye my friend. You will be missed.

Damon
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I had the pleasure of meeting Ray last year at Indy. The two of us spent about an hour together in the hospitality room before diner. We chatted about handcuffs, his past collection, his desire to start collecting once again, and life in general. I found him to be interesting, informative, and just a heck of nice guy. I was looking forward to getting together with him again this year. My thoughts and prayers to his family.

Joe Giunta
Chris Gower 03 Mar 2013
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It is with deep regret and sadness that I relay the passing of Ray McKee. Ray was a long time collector and at one time had one of the most prominent restraint collections in the world. In the mid 1980s Ray sold his collection. During his early years, Ray located and identified some of the rarest items known to the hobby and certainly helped many collectors by passing on his knowledge and expertise.

Additionally Ray was a gifted machinist and made several one of a kind items that were spectacular. In about 2004, Ray decided to start collecting again and was quick to gain the attention of many of us as that darn high bidder on ebay. I personally got to know Ray about seven years ago. It was like opening an encyclopedia of knowledge. When I mentioned a strange cuff or senior collector, Ray always knew what and who I was talking about.

Last year Ray attended the Indy lock show and it was such a treat to meet him personally. Ray was genuinely nice man who loved his family and friends and of course the hobby.

Good bye my friend. You will be missed.

Damon
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Really sad news about the passing away of Ray. He was the first US handcuff collector that I ever corresponded with back in 1970. He was always really friendly and helpful and over the years we had many trades between us. New collectors may find it hard to believe but in those days an International trade would take about a month to complete - rather than the 24 hours now!
Rays knowledge on handcuffs and Houdini was exceptional and he would frequently update me on his new additions with numerous photos and rather poor quality copies of and update to his collection - all of which I still have. I stopped collecting in about 1989 and lost contact with him but was delighted when he contacted me again in about 2004 saying he was going to start a small collection not exceeding 100 items!
You will be sadly missed by all of us in the collectors community. RIP Ray
Chris Gower